I was often the one of only 2 females at the table, the second being my partner at the time (same sex marriage not being legal). Later there was often a 3rd, but she was too little to play.
However when she was 3, at a regional gaming con, she walked around with an ‘It’s okay, I’m on the staff’ button. (my partner and I were old SF/F con veterans and this group hadn’t ever ran a con before… needless to say, LOL)
Sometimes I miss the simpler days of dice and paper